This is a really quick one but last night I went to an engagement party for my boyfriend’s brother and his absolute babe of a fiance. It was such a good night and I had a lush time.
So, normally I need to be at least 3 drinks, 2 shots in to even think about dancing but last night I was brave and just went for it (small accomplishments people, cherish them).
My boyfriend’s little sister (she’s 15 so she’s fairly little, looks like an angel, plays piano like a queen) told me I was a good dancer and I had good rythem. I’ve honestly never been happier (okay obviously I have but this is way up there).
It just made me think that I want to start saying those little things to people, no matter how small it seems. I like to think that most people like being told they are good at something. There’s already too much negativity in the world and if people’s internal monologues are anything like mine then they are negative af.
What she said will stick with me (and maybe she just and it to be nice but I think any praise from a 15 year old should be taken seriously!) And the next time I get up to dance I hopefully won’t have that massive moment of self-consciousness.
The whole party made me realise how lucky I am that I have a second family who’s taken me in and treated me like one of their own.
Anyway, I’m sorry if this was a bit rambling. I had too many gins last night and I may be slightly intoxicated still but it’s all good. I need to find food.
A xo